Are You Someone Looking For Love?
For the majority of people falling in love and getting married seems to be the natural thing to do in life. If you don’t find the love of your life and settle down, it is supposed to mean that you have gone wrong somewhere. For anybody who does get married and settle down it is often after many relationships have failed.
As you go through life you will meet people who you have common interests and inclinations with and you will meet people who you may not have much in common with but you feel some kind of attraction. The attraction that you feel is usually a mixture of physical and emotional attraction. These kinds of attraction usually defy definition but are often said to be due to “chemistry”.
Sometimes there are varying amounts of deception on one or both sides of a relationship which leads to dissatisfaction and misunderstandings. One person in the relationship feels that everything is going well but the other person is not happy. This kind of situation is not necessarily due to conscious lying on the part of one or both of the partners but more due to a degree of self-deception.
The prospect of marriage can often show up the weaknesses in a romance. On the surface, things seem fine but if you begin to look at the romance as a long term relationship, you might begin to see that the two people have little in common.
If a person is not in a relationship they often try to meet people byu spending time in places designed for strangers to meet. This is often a great way to find how little you have in common with most other people.
Often frustration with trying to find someone to love leads people to the internet, that modern day fount of wisdom. They make a profile on Myspace or Facebook. The contents of the profile would be a continuation of the persona that we all put out when we are trying to make an impression on strangers of the opposite sex, or it could be a radical attempt at honesty – at describing the “real” me, warts and all, but also with the good points.
There can be many attempts made by any one person to find the right someone to love. The process is littered with awkward meetings and amazement at how many people out there are totally incompatible with me. On top of that, so many people seem to be unusual and eccentric in a totally repulsive way. Where do they all come from.
A successful search for someone to love will, according to western customs, end in a declaration that the two people will look after each other during economic hardship and illness. No mention is made of sharing disgusting habits and discovery of the other person’s refusal to assign to you the value place on yourself. Good luck with that.