| ". . . Masculine passion runs very hot, and when two men get together all sorts of sparks can fly. If you are wanting to explore oral sex with your buddy in order to improve your relationships with women, you might be in for a surprise. Such an experience might actually distance you from women and increase your desire for more masculine companionship. I am totally in favor of increasing masculine companionship, but are you prepared for the possible consequence that you might come to prefer mansex? Keep in mind that men have an astonishing ability to pleasure one another because they know the male body so well. Another man will know and understand every sensation you are feeling. Another man will know how to handle a cock better than any woman ever could, because he has a lifetime of experience. Another man will know how a horny man's brain works, because he's wired in the same way. And since most men in Western society don't get nearly enough masculine companionship on a daily basis, mansex tends to feel verrrry good because it literally and figuratively fills a gap in male experience. It is perfectly natural to want to pursue your curiosities about mansex. And doing so with a man you can trust and are close to is ideal. I suggest that you start slowly and discover just how much you enjoy sexual intimacy with other men. Become jerk off buddies with your friend . . ." |
" . . . Then we come to the question of: "If the mutual masturbation involves touching another guy, is it a homosexual act?" Another good question! (Obviously, they mean touching each other's penises) but I wonder if it would mean anything if they were just touching knees or arms while sitting next to one another and masturbating. I guess it is all up to the individual to decide (or justify).
In reality, anywhere from 30-50% of all men admit to having had some kind of homosexual experience. How far does it have to go to for it to be considered a "homosexual experience?" I'm not really sure. The 30-50% figure has such a wide, ambiguous range. Which is it? 30% or 50% -- there is a big difference between 30 and 50. The thing is, what people consider an "official" sexual experience depends on how the term "sexual experience" is defined. People write to me all the time after they have read Confidential Sexuality and ask, "Are you gay or straight now?" To be sarcastic, I sometimes reply, 'Well, it depends on what day of the week it is... ' "
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"Jacking a guy's meat while he plays with yours can be a delight in
and of itself. As they say in techo-speak, it's a feedback loop.
Both of you react to the other's touch, each doing something
similar to the other, but not the same. Because no two men's
masturbatory repertoires are the same, it's also a learning
experience - you get to find out just what kind of stroking,
squeezing, and slapping gets your partner off, and who knows, you
may pick up a tip or two that'll come in handy during subsequent
solitary wanks. Be it a quick relief of tension, an excruciatingly
pleasant exercise in extended stimulation, or a fun-filled group
spurt, mutual cockplay rocks. There's no reason to let that hard-on
go unattended when there's sure to be someone out there willing to
lend a hand."
Quote from Simon Sheppard's Sex Talk in
"Q The Gayteway to South Africa" September 4, 2000
http://www.q.co.za
