Pornography -The Pillow Book of Modern Times
Porn and masturbation go hand in glove (snigger). Whatever philosophical reservations you have won't make it go away.
There's a school of "thought" that says
porn is offensive to women. I don't want
to offend any women, but my own
experience, and what I've learned on the
web, tell me that lots of women enjoy
looking at men's and women's bodies,
and even get off on watching real and
feigned masturbation and sex acts.
Another little discussed fact is that
"straight guys" have gay fantasies when
they masturbate.
Some relationship counsellors encourage their clients to unlock their visual
powers by encouraging them to buy erotic books and magazines, view porn
together on the internet. They say that women get excited by visual stimulation
too!
They get couples into mutual masturbation. After they become more visual they get
them into sensuality, touch and advanced masturbation techniques.
"Then comes flirting with each other by encouraging them to remember the
positive things that brought them together .
If people stopped feeling threatened by jealousy, then all the sexual energy that
erotica created could be channeled back into the relationship to inspire lust.
CAN YOU BE ADDICTED TO MASTURBATION?
Yes, this is by far the most common sex addiction that I have treated in working with sex addiction. This usually is the first sexual behavior many of us will have on a repeated basis. This is usually where the sexual compulsion starts with sex addicts and this behavior, regardless of other acquired behaviors, usually stays active.
Pornography is often used hand-in-hand with masturbation to stimulate the imagination as well as the genitals. In fact, the word pornography is derived from two Greek words that translate literally as writing (about) prostitutes. In today’s diverse society, there is no commonly accepted definition of pornography;
"Some people believe the Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition and R-Rated movies are pornographic while other people don’t consider something pornographic unless it involves sexually violent or aggressive acts." More at afraidtoask.com
WHAT ROLE DOES PORNOGRAPHY PLAY IN SEX ADDICTION?
Pornography for many sex addicts combined with regular masturbation is the cornerstone for most sex addicts. Many sex addicts have great difficulty getting sober from this combination of behavior. The pornography with fantasy creates an unreal world that the sex addict visits throughout their adolescence and other developmental stages and creates an object relationship that conditions their emotional and sexual self to depend upon these objects and fantasies to meet their emotional and sexual needs hundreds of times before having sex with a real person."
http://www.sexaddict.com/FAQ.html
Visual Sensations for Women - Here's a quote from the opening page:
"Visual Sensations for Women is dedicated to bringing visual pleasures of the opposite
gender to women. It explores and promotes those heterosexual situations in which men are
presented to women naked in all their exposed glory and vulnerability, without the women
themselves being nude. The clothed-female/naked-man ("CFNM") theme is integral to this
site as turning the societal tables allow women the opportunity to observe all aspects of men
on display naked and vulnerable, without affording the men the same.
It is this inequity that creates a new dynamic in the traditional roles that we celebrate and
promote. Such dynamics need not be confined to a sexual environment such as the bedroom,
as they are frequently found in vocational activities, ceremonial rites, exotic balls,
recreational activities and entertainment. All of these situations, and more, are highlighted
and explored here with photographs and real stories."
There's more at ssspread , porn for dykes, lesbians and transgendered individuals.
For links to more sites and comprehensive articles on women's erotica by Kayel of pornforwomen
click here and here.
For a REALLY big list of women's porn sites, both professional and amateur, go to Jane's Guide.
Here's a magazine style site, not a porn site, but "for women who like sex" http://www.cliterati.co.uk/warning.html
"...pornography allows for experimentation and breaks
orthodox standards of sexuality.
The idea of lying in the missionary position while counting the
stars is flouted, and instead the enjoyment
of sex is encouraged. Restricting pornography limits the
choices that a woman has and invokes the repression
of Victorian times."
quote from Pornography helps women, society by Mathew Gever
Libida.com is a kind of erotic books and products store crossed
with Playgirl's Home Journal. Here's what the warning page
blurb says: "Libida's sole purpose is to increase women's
pleasure and sexual knowledge. In fact, we have so much to
offer that you need to be at least 21 years of age in order to
visit us. We sell sex toys, display erotic art and literature, and
provide a plethora of sexual information meant for mature
adults only."
but it looks the way I would've thought a porn site for women should look! For an insight into my stodgy little
soul, check it out.
"All The News That's Not Fit To Print"
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for Pics of the Day from More Porn Than You Need
Click here to browse the titles at Hand Jobs Pay Per View Theatre
Galleries and other quality sites.
All Natural Porn
is a very colorful and comprehensive thumbnail gallery post.
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Monica's Reviews
Monica provides reviews and links to porn with
personality. She also provides free erotic
stories, free porn news, free porn cards, tantric
sexual positions, links to free personals, sex
articles, sex advice, and information on
sexuality. If you want access to only the highest
quality porn sites, you've come to the right
place. Every porn link is hand-picked by
Monica and chosen for it's quality, personality,
uniqueness, or style.
Anarchy Links
Free Sex Toplist
Sexual Links
You will find on this site: a large adult surfing tips section, thumbnail galleries, a sex health and issues resource page, adult
store access, two large all free sex pages including daily pictures, a TGP, a games and puzzles section, a webmasters
resource area and many links to other quality adult sites.
Royo's Raunchy Short-shorts
Nasty Sexfiction, Offbeat Links, and Juicy Teen Photos
Short, VERY erotic and explicit sex stories (flash fiction) for men and women in easy reading format. Interesting lists
of handpicked sex links of all kinds. Juicy, high quality photo samples. Surfing tricks and tips. Tons of links (with
comments) to free galleries (18+ teens, blowjobs, etc). Honest ads with more free samples. NO crap FREE site.
More links and resources than you can poke your stick at!
Another interesting little item:
The Illustrated Book of Sexual Records
Sexual Superlatives from all around the World
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